In-progress image of Drops Design Gingerbread Love socks made with Knit Picks Stroll fingering-weight yarn.

Gingerbread Men, a Big Bad Wolf, and Other Shenanigans

November has arrived with its usual flurry of gatherings and holiday preparations, hence the failure to write an update post last weekend. Halloween was a blast and there’s just so much going on with extended family and band family that I’m being kept happily absorbed in juggling all the balls in the air. I’m actually writing this post from my grandmother’s house while I stay with her for a while to help care for her.

Halloween

I’ve never been much of a Halloween person; I don’t think I’ve worn a costume since I was in high school, but this year I wanted to do a little bit more. I made ghost ravioli one night, which was appreciated by the Brooketopians. And, completely due to me being on the Ward Activities Committee and having to be at the Church Halloween Harvest Party, I put together a couple’s costume for Michael and myself: Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf:

Husband and wife costume: Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf

Umm, we were ADORABLE. I was too busy with last-minute prep for the Harvest Party to help him with his face makeup, so that didn’t happen. (In future years, though, I really should just ask Rachel if she’ll help with that!) Rachel went as a witch and she manned the face painting booth at the party. I overheard a little girl telling her parents that it was the BEST Halloween party she’d ever been to because there was face painting and IT WAS FREE. Oh, my heart.

Mother and daughter dressed in Red Riding Hood and Witch Halloween costumes

There was an indoor Trunk-or-Treat, because this is Washington and we are sick of being rained on in the parking lot, so Michael and I manned a classroom and handed out candy at that as well. Michael is such a softie; while we were at Costco the weekend before he saw the boxes of full-sized chocolate bars and, with a glint in his eye, asked if maybe we should hand out full-sized chocolate bars at the church party? I laughed and said it was a great idea.

Weird observation: Kids these days are not interested in Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups. We ran out of Kit Kats first, then the regular ol’ Hershey’s chocolate bars, then the Hershey’s with Almonds, and then we had leftovers of the Reese’s! Cuh-RAZY. But good for me because they’re my favorite. Oh no! Children were happy and I had a pocketful of Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups afterwards! The horrors!

Our Ward Harvest Party is also our Chili Cook-off Competition, so I made up an apron for it and it turned out really good! We announced the winner while the Trunk-or-Treating was going on, so a lot of people were not in the Cultural Hall when that happened. But you could tell that people cared A LOT about winning the competition because they were asking for the rest of the evening if it had been announced.

I need to make a note to myself to make sure to announce the end of voting, and actually award the apron BEFORE the Trunk-or-Treating begins so that more people can be in the room to cheer for the winner. It was our first time as a committee doing this, so little stuff like this wasn’t thought of beforehand—you don’t know what you don’t know until you know it, right? I always say it takes about three years to get any sort of organization or function running smoothly. Give a lot of grace in the first two years, especially in the first!

Chili Cook-off Champion apron made with glitter vinyl cut-outs

The Church Harvest Party was the Friday ahead of Halloween, so on actual Halloween we were pretty chill. Michael, Ren and I sat on the front porch in our PJs and handed out candy to the hordes. I love handing out candy to the kids that come through! A big group of moms of littles in our ward(-ish) boundaries came through with their broods and it was so delightful to open the door and see all those happy little familiar faces, bouncing up and down with excitement together. As the night goes on it becomes more of a teen scene, so I then get to see the kids I work with and it’s just so darn cute to see their more creative and “it’s safe to be the authentic me because I’m not being scrutinized by my peers at school” sides. I might actually steal curate one of the costume ideas I saw and use it for Michael and myself next year.

Cross Country

Nathaniel’s Cross Country season is officially over. He set a personal record at his last race on Halloween! 3.1 miles in 17 minutes and 46 seconds! Yay! Unfortunately, it wasn’t fast enough to qualify for State, but it’s fine. He was very happy with the PR and perhaps next year he’ll qualify for State. I do love that about Cross Country—you’re really only racing against yourself. Of course, it’s always nice to be overall winner of the race, but it really just matters if you’re improving over your last time.

A fun little bonus: Because his last race was on Halloween, I made him a little gingerbread-esque sweatband to wear so he could go around saying, “Run, run, as fast as you can, you can’t catch me, I’m the Gingerbread Man!” Gone are the days of making costumes for my little ones, so I was happy to stitch up a cute little Halloween accessory for my boy. It reminded me of when he’d be so giggly and jumpy to see the next piece of a costume come off of the sewing machine. (There was not giggling and jumping this time, though; he’s sixteen. Too old for that sort of thing.)

Teenaged boy wearing a Cross Country sweatshirt and a brown sweatband with white ric-rack stitched on it to create a Gingerbread Man costume.

Planning Meetings for December

This last week was a blur of planning meetings for various organizations’ holiday events. The Ward Christmas Party, the band’s Evening of Jazz silent auction fundraiser, so many Church Christmas music requests, etc. It’s time for the ol’ holiday razzle dazzle, y’all!

Gingerbread Love Socks

I abandoned Project Snickerdoodle because it wasn’t going to work out and I didn’t want the added stress, but I still need a knitting project for my own sanity, so I decided to grant myself the gift of starting a darling pattern that I noticed last year: The Gingerbread Love Socks, by DROPS Design. FAIR ISLE GINGERBREAD MEN, PEOPLE!! Of course I HAD TO. I have them with me now while I’m sitting with my grandmother and it’s been so nice to work on them while chatting with her and watching Hallmark Christmas Movies together. #idyllic

In-progress image of Drops Design Gingerbread Love socks made with Knit Picks Stroll fingering-weight yarn.

I will not make it a goal to get these finished by Christmas; these are purely for enjoyment’s sake. Also…there’s a matching “Cookie Parade” sweater pattern…and my heart wants that sweater.

You know what? You should all take a moment to look through DROPS Design’s Christmas pattern collection, it’s impressive and inspiring! So many cute things to make! The kid sweaters! Oh, my future grandbabies will be well-clothed in Christmas cheer when the time comes for that!

And in the meantime, I think I spy a few Christmas sweaters that I might need to make for myself as well. You know, for morale…

Needles, Thread, and Halloween Dread (Just a Little!)

Another week in October is DONE and it was another busy one: Donation pick-ups for the band fundraiser, setting up volunteers to sew/reinforce buttons on band uniforms, various doctor appointments for the kids, the Cross Country Leagues race, dinner with my granny and aunt…all good things.

Freshly-Quilted Quilts!

I picked up the freshly-quilted Penguin Party and Layer Cake Crepe quilts from the quilter and they look FABULOUS. I was pleasantly surprised, as was the quilter, that the Layer Cake Crepe quilt turned out so well…it’s kind of a boring pattern, but when you get the quilting done on it, it really starts to sing! I’m looking forward to binding those soon!


Rachel’s Graduation Quilt

I even managed to sneak in some sewing and I am ecstatic to report that the top and backing of Rachel’s Graduation Signature Quilt are pretty much DONE! I thought they were done-done, but then remembered I still have to appliqué a couple of late signature blocks to the quilt.


ASAP Projects

But I can’t get to any of those quilts until I finish up two projects: The Ward Harvest Party Chili Cook-Off Champion apron and the Band vests’ buttons.

Chili Cook-Off Champion Apron

The Ward Harvest (really: Halloween) Party is this week, and we always have a chili cook-off competition at the same time. I’m a huge fan of friendly competition, so I suggested we award some sort of prize with low-key bragging rights and volunteered to make Champion aprons for our various cooking competitions throughout the year. I made one for the cobbler contest we had at our Pioneer Day BBQ and it turned out super cute! I decided to go more gender-neutral on the chili apron because I think we’ll get a lot of guys participating and rick-rak isn’t a favored look by that demographic.


I was having a hard time motivating myself to work on the apron last week because I want to finish Rachel’s graduation quilt, and eventually I had to crowdsource some motivation from my family: Renaissance offered to “bully” me by refusing to watch the series we’re working through together UNLESS I was working on the chili apron. Worked wonders. Something went a little wonky with vinyl placement–shocker (vinyl is not my preferred creative medium!)–so I need to create and cut another little bit of the illustration to fill in an empty spot, but then it’ll be done.

Band Vest Button Reinforcements

The band vests aren’t that big of a deal, but they popped up out of nowhere and it’s just another thing I’m keeping tabs on until they’re done. Our director noticed that the buttons were wearing through their attaching stitches and asked if it was something we could fix before it became a bigger problem. I threw together a Facebook post asking for sewing volunteers. Some people offered to help, I told Nathaniel to bring the vests home from school, and the volunteers came to my house to pick up their assigned vests. No biggie. Love being part of a community that helps!


I did notice some vests were missing buttons, so I’ve taken over those particular ones. Of course, they’re satin-covered buttons that match the vests’ golden-butterscotch color, but I just got off the phone with the company that made the vests and it turns out you can just order the buttons from them. They will be here sometime next week and I’ll reattach them then.

Another Christmas Knitting Project

I also decided to throw prudence to the wind and commit to another Christmas gift project, but discovered that I didn’t own the correctly-sized knitting needles for it. So I ordered those, and they’re set to arrive sometime this week.

Last-Minute Halloween Preparations

Oh, and it’s Halloween Week, duh. So I need to be working on Michael’s and my costumes for the Halloween party, and our trunk-or-treat setup. Might go super simple, might go super creative and awesome. It will really depend on how this week goes.

Last Week’s Progress:

  • Picked up Penguin Party and Layer Cake Crepe quilts.
  • Finished piecing the top of Rachel’s Graduation Quilt.
  • Almost finished the Chili Cook-off Champion apron.
  • Distributed Band vests to sewing volunteers, ordered replacement buttons.

This Week’s Goals:

  • Finish Chili Cook-off Champion apron.
  • Halloween costume creation.
  • Create Trunk-or-Treat decorations.
  • Ward Harvest Party miscellaneous creations.
  • Reinforce Band vest buttons while waiting for replacement buttons.
  • Maybe start working on the new Secret Christmas Knitting Project. I need a good codename for this one…I think I’ll call it “Project Snickerdoodle.” I don’t know if I can pull this off in the time left before Christmas, but the beauty of knitting is that it doesn’t go bad. If I completely miss this year’s deadline, it can always be a gift next year.
    • Milestones I’ll need to hit if I want to finish this in time for Christmas:
      • Oct 26-Nov 1: 13% done
      • Nov 2-8: 25% done
      • Nov 9-15: 38% done
      • Nov 16-22: 50% done
      • Nov 23-29: 63% done
      • Nov 30-Dec 6: 75% done
      • Dec 7-13: 88% done
      • Dec 14-20: 100% done
      • Dec 21-24: Blocking & wrapping

Goodbye Halloween, Hello Christmas!

It’s November, and right on schedule, it’s raining like crazy today. It’s pretty rain at this point—the brightness of the colorful leaves creates an impressionistic feel to the landscape, so at least we have that.

  • Halloween celebrating & traditions
  • Band Fundraiser Table Runners
  • Scheduling special musical performances for November
  • Finding a pianist for the Christmas program
  • Make some headway on the secret Christmas knitting
  • Rest when I’m tired or hurting

Halloween was fun this year. Not a lot of fuss, but Renaissance and I did manage to create our traditional chili in pumpkin bread bowls, which I wasn’t too sure was going to happen. She invited her friends over for another Halloween feast before Trick or Treating started, despite that they’re all adults now that don’t do Trick or Treating, and they hung out afterwards playing video games together and taking breaks to hunt down Rachel and Nathaniel in the neighborhood to jump scare them with light sabers. As one does…

I was a little sad going into Halloween this year because Ren and her friends have grown up and I was worried about Rachel and Nathaniel not having a group to go Trick or Treating with, but they put the word out that we live in a great neighborhood for Trick or Treating and some of their friends decided to come on over to do that here. It was nice. I love the chaos of having a gaggle of teenagers in my house on Halloween night. Absolutely love it—peak motherhood aspirations there.

So Halloween is over, and with that comes Christmas. I absolutely turned on Christmas music this morning as I worked in the craft room!

And spare me your “Christmas shouldn’t start before Thanksgiving” sentiments: I’m Canadian; I grew up with Thanksgiving taking place in early October, so my internal Christmas countdown was programmed in childhood to start once Halloween was over and I’m not going to reset it ever because more time in Christmas Town is AWESOME. I take the requisite days off from Christmas prep to do a proper job on American Thanksgiving, and we are very grateful people who are capable of exuding a thankful attitude even while decorating for Christmas. I know, it may be shocking that such people exist, but we do! Everything is OK, gratitude will continue to exist in our home despite the appearance of red and green before Thanksgiving. If you’re a person who doesn’t do Christmas until after American Thanksgiving, cool. You do you. But do not come in here demanding that the only correct way to celebrate the holidays is how you do it. Because that is blatantly incorrect.

And further more, how do you think Christmas music happens? Do you think musicians wait until after American Thanksgiving to start practicing that stuff? Of course they don’t! Big preparations take time, and there is not a lot of time between American Thanksgiving and Christmas. Sorry/not sorry to pop your bubble on this concept, but many musicians start practicing their Christmas music in October, even September. I started planning and purchasing Christmas sheet music in August. That’s how Christmas music happens—that far in advance. Just be thankful (hey, there’s that gratitude word!) that there are people who want to shower others with so much Christmas cheer that they’ll voluntarily give up their time very early on in order to prepare for Christmas, rather than pointing fingers and snidely alluding that the Early Christmas Cheer people are materialistic gimme pigs. We’re actually spending more time in service to others by getting the Christmas Town Express going early, and that’s…decidedly unmaterialistic, right?

/soapbox (I’m so tired of this argument that, really, shouldn’t even exist.)

I have found time to start working on the Band Fundraiser table runners this week. I’ve got most of the fabric cut up and I’ve ironed what I have on-hand and have done the first round of sewing on one (1) table runner. I hope the future organizers of this event don’t get tired of the table runners and get rid of them in a few years. They’re turning out quite nice and could potentially last for years if they’re treated well.

I made a little bit of progress on the secret Christmas knitting, too.

I am hitting some major walls with church music. I shall remain optimistic through this weekend and if things don’t sort themselves out I’m going to have to alter my plans. Once again, but for a different crowd this time, how do you think Christmas music happens? A big part of that is people being willing to be a part of church choir. If you’ve ever wondered about joining your church’s choir, stop wondering and just do it. We’re desperate for you. DESPERATE.

I’m almost there, I can feel it. I yo-yo back and forth between overdoing it and needing to take time to rest from the overdoing, which is always a good sign that points towards a “nearing full recovery” kind of thing. I’m glad I wrote about it this time around so I can look back and see the glacial pace and know that it’s completely normal. Six weeks of inactivity is a really long time. You don’t think it is when people throw that timeline around, but laying around for that long is mind-numbingly boring. I guess I should be thankful that I’m feeling like bursting my prison right as Christmas Season begins. What a glorious reward!

  • Halloween was noisy and fun. I love hosting all these kids at our house.
  • I made a beautiful pumpkin soup this week that was so delicious.
  • The best idea came to me at church: At the end of each month, sit down with your spouse and schedule all your weekly date nights for the entire next month. So simple, but it’s literally never occurred to me. When I approached Michael with the idea, he improved it by saying we could align our four dates each month with the four goal-setting areas of the Church’s youth program in order to expand our horizons a little more. So, a date night dedicated to 1) Spiritual, 2) Intellectual, 3) Physical, and 4) Social pursuits each month. In months with five Fridays we’ll have a family date, which are the most expensive dates of them all, but you know, kids deserve some fun times out with their parents, too.
  • Renaissance got her car stuck in the mud when she went out with friends to a haunted house this last week. Thankfully, Michael came to her rescue. Where would we be without good dads?

Meals, Tomatoes, Pumpkins, Hopefully Some Sewing

Recovery from surgery is going much, much better. I think I may be able to pull off a somewhat “normal” amount of activity this week. I’ve made the choice to stop taking Tylenol for my post-op pain because I think we’re getting close to the end and any amount of pain is a signal that I’m doing too much and that I should slow down rather than pop a pain reliever and keep going at the same pace. I know it’s a wise decision, but ugh. But hey…we are definitely getting to the end of this!

This week’s meal plan:

  • Monday: Tortellini in broth, Peasant rolls
  • Tuesday: Creamy Pumpkin Soup, European Boule
  • Wednesday: Roast Chicken with garlic, lemon & rosemary, Normandy vegetables, Rice pilaf
  • Thursday: Chili in pumpkin bread bowls
  • Friday: Taco Night
  • Saturday: Leftovers
  • Sunday: Pork & Tomatillo Stew

Renaissance also plans to make a Butterscotch Pumpkin Pie.

I am doing laundry pretty regularly now, but I can’t lift the full baskets of clothes. It’s not much of an issue most days because there’s almost always someone else in the house with me.

Cleaning is still a little difficult for me, so I’m keeping an eagle eye on the kids’ chores and not letting them get away with doing half-hearted jobs. I don’t think I’m anyone’s favorite parent right now.

I’m just trying to get back in the swing of making all the meals regularly because hungry people are grumpy people. There’s also a lot of office work to catch up on, so I expect to spend a lot of time on that this week.

I am going to try my hardest to get some actual sewing done this week. The fabric for the band fundraiser table runners is here and I’ve pre-washed it all and am in the middle of cutting it to size. I’m a little optimistic that I might get these done quickly.

I need to really, really get knitting on the secret Christmas knitting project(s). Eek!

The tomatoes. Oh, the tomatoes. The green ones are ripening on the counter, so that’s good. We’ll be using a lot of the pureed pumpkin this week, which makes me pleased. I’m hoping we’ll get the garden cleaned out this upcoming weekend, too.

Happy Halloween Week! The kids have costumes, I bought candy, and there are pumpkins for carving, but I don’t know if they’ll get carved at all. There is ONE carved pumpkin, so everything’s ok in a minimalist fashion.

  • Pep Band potluck this week
  • The work continues to get ready for the band fundraiser
  • Ward Choir sheet music is arriving on schedule
  • I still need to find a pianist(s) for our Christmas program
  • I need to schedule the special musical performances for November and December
  • Halloween celebrating & traditions
  • Band Fundraiser Table Runners
  • Scheduling special musical performances for November
  • Finding a pianist for the Christmas program
  • Make some headway on the secret Christmas knitting
  • Rest when I’m tired or hurting

The 2021 Halloween Costume Chronicles: Renaissance, Part 2

Me: “Ren, do you want any kinds of decorations on your witch hat?”

Renaissance: “Maybe?”

Me: [buys an ungodly amount of fake fall foliage on my next trip to JoAnn Fabrics]

Renaissance, upon seeing the loot: “Wow, you sure bought a lot of that stuff.”

Me: [grinning maniacally] “You wanna watch YouTube videos with me about how to decorate witch hats?”

Renaissance: [hesitates] “Um…sure, why not?”

[We watch aforementioned videos]

Renaissance: “Awww man, now I wish I’d chosen a more complicated witch persona! Those hats were cool!”

[We fuss with her hat, trying to figure out how we want it to sit]

Renaissance: “It’s too floppy.”

Me: “We can try to add something to make it stand up more.”

Renaissance: “Like what?”

Me: [scans the craft room] “Corset boning?”

Renaissance:

The 2021 Halloween Costume Chronicles: Rachel

Me: “What do you want to be for Halloween, Rachel?”

Rachel: “I don’t know.”

Me: “I honestly didn’t think I’d get that answer from you, of all people.”

Rachel: “Probably some sort of witch.”

Me: “OK, well, Ren’s going to be a 1950s witch; what kind of witch do you want to be?”

Rachel: “Maybe something along the lines of an Instagram influencer witch aesthetic?”

Me: [raises eyebrow] “Okaaaaay…and what does that look like?”

Rachel: [brow furrows] “It’s hard to explain.”

Me: “Well, let’s search a witch hashtag on Instagram and you tell me which ones look like what you’re thinking of.”

[We look at witch hashtags. Rachel says nothing.]

Me: “Any of these what you’re thinking?”

Rachel: “No. There’s too many crystals and too much eyeliner.”

Me: “Well, that’s kind of what the Instagram witch aesthetic is.”

Rachel: “…”

Me: “How about we look on Amazon for costume ideas?”

Rachel: [shrugs shoulders] “OK.”

[We pull up Amazon and start to scroll through costumes]

Rachel: “Ooooh, Katniss Everdeen!”

Me: [adds to cart]

The 2021 Halloween Costume Chronicles: Emms

Me: “Emms, what do you want to be for Halloween?”

Emms: “The same thing I always am.”

Me: “Do you want me to make any extra accessories for your costume?”

Emms: [left the room while I was talking]

The 2021 Halloween Costume Chronicles: Nathaniel

Me: “Nathaniel, what do you want to be for Halloween?”

Nathaniel: [flops onto ground and starts convulsing]

Me: [watches]

Nathaniel: [stops twitching]

Me: “An electrocuted dude?”

Nathaniel: [laughs] “Nope!”

Me: “…”

Nathaniel: [grins in anticipation]

Me: “…Kind of hard to guess off of what you’ve given me so far.”

Nathaniel: “A pig!”

Me: [stares blankly at the child that will carry on my husband’s family’s name] “Alright.”

The 2021 Halloween Costume Chronicles: Renaissance, Part 1

Me: “Ren, what do you want to be for Halloween?”

Renaissance: [shrugs shoulders] “Meh.”

Me: “Does that mean you don’t want to dress up for Halloween?”

Renaissance: “Meh.”

Me: [inhales and exhales slowly] “Please use English words to convey what thoughts are going through your brain right now regarding this year’s Halloween costume.”

Renaissance: “I don’t know. Maybe a witch?”

Me: “I can do witch. What kind of witch?”

Renaissance: “Meh.”

Me: [has an aneurysm explode in my brain] “I’m going to restate my request for actual words.”

Renaissance: “How about a 1950s witch?”

Me: [heart skips a beat as ears perk up] “That’s…oddly specific? What’s the vision?”

Renaissance: “Meh.”

Me: [death glare]

Renaissance: “How about a cat or a pumpkin on a circle skirt?”

Me: “I can do that.”