…had some surgery in November, which wasn’t supposed to take that long to recover from, but then, at the one-week follow-up appointment, my doctor broke the news that I needed to stay in bed for another five weeks. So I went from expecting one week of lying around to SIX WEEKS. DURING THE HOLIDAYS.
The six-week follow-up appointment happens during the week before Christmas, so I’m pretty much stuck in bed, drooling over all the gorgeous Instagram posts of beautiful Christmas quilts and lamenting that I can’t finish all the stuff that I promised myself that I was going to finally finish up this year. 2016 has not been a banner year for me, people.
BUT…I do not want to be one of those people who mopes about and whines about their difficulties, so that has meant trying to stay “busy” despite the bed rest.
I spent the days leading up to my surgery frantically finishing up a quilt to the point where I’d only have the hand stitching of the binding left to do. During my first week post-op, I finished hand stitching the binding. Then I designed some alterations for a dress I own that’s too short on me, and, inspired by the idea of sewing clothing, I read Couture Sewing Techniques, which then had me researching Christian Dior-everything for a few days.
After receiving the very unexpected news of another five weeks of bed rest, I panicked and decided to start a Christmas EPP quilt, but after finishing two of the blocks I realized that I didn’t actually want to make it and abandoned it. I’ll keep the blocks for something else in the future.
Then I decided that the quilt label for the quilt I’d just finished binding could use a little extra pizazz, so I opted to embroider parts of it, which took the rest of the week and little of the next. (There is a lot of napping happening during my day.)
I also read The Art of Manipulating Fabric, and Draping: The Complete Course. I’m seeing some garment construction in my future, and I’m excited. I have three daughters who are about to embark upon their teenage years, and I’ve always thought that one of the funnest parts of having girls would be making their party and dance dresses, and it’s always good to practice a skill before you actually *need* it, so maybe next year will see me venture into that arena a bit.
Thanksgiving, which had to be delegated to my kids and they did a pretty great job of it. A friend from my quilt guild saw my SOS Instagram post and brought me over a ton of books to read, so I spent most of my third week reading:
- A Curse Dark as Gold (very good retelling of “Rumpelstiltskin!”)
- Dragonfly (enjoyed very much!)
- Once Upon a Marigold (not sure I’ll finish it), and
- The Blue Sword (enjoying)
So here we are, amidst Week #4, and I was really hoping that my doctor’s “six weeks” prescription was just overly cautious, but I tried to sew up the swap block for November this week and it about killed me with pain and exhaustion to just do a fabric pull, so I had to send out an email apologizing for the block’s tardiness because it will not be getting finished anytime soon. And, as a precaution, I wrote to December’s swap recipient as well and gave her a heads-up that her block could end up being late as well. Sigh.
BUT…I woke up from this surgery with NO BACK PAIN for the first time in three years, so the future is looking mighty bright! I can rest three more weeks if it means no back pain.
And, for Week #4, I’m feeling the knitting a-calling to me…especially:
- Color-Tipped Italian Cashmere Beanie by Churchmouse Yarns (because it’s beautiful in that wonderfully elegant way that “simple” is beautiful)
- Honeymoon Cowl by FitzBirch Crafts (learning double knit could be fun)
- Botanical Yoke Pullover by Purl Soho (oh, that cabled yoke…will have to wait, but it’s sure fun to stare at it when I can)
- St. Brendan by Kelbourne Woolens (I’m making this some day, but not now because it takes some planning), or
- Socks! (Because I can do that…)
My son does need a new winter hat…I think my second daughter might need one, too…OH! And I was supposed to mend my youngest daughter’s Hello Kitty hat…bed rest or not, a mama’s work is never done. I cannot wait to get back to making pancakes, and vacuuming, and cooking dinners that don’t come from a box. Resting is a nice change, but it’s sucky to be forced to rest from taking care of the people you love.