Happy Homemaker Monday: July 17-23, 2023

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Thank you all so much for your comments on my last Happy Homemaker post! I’m so grateful for the opportunity to join a supportive community of people who love making their homes beautiful.

This last week was a busy one and I didn’t get on the blog like I wanted to, so my apologies for the lack of crafty posts. It is not an indicator of change on this blog; I simply didn’t do any crafting last week because we were so busy with decluttering and summer activities. I’m hoping to do more crafty posts this week, but Rachel’s bedroom declutter is taking longer than I thought it would because that room is a grotto of thingamabobs and whatsits, and…yeah, taking longer than I thought it would. Believe me, I’d much rather be crafting.

Anyhoo, on to this week’s Happy Homemaker post:

The Weather:

I know I shouldn’t complain about the heat because so many other people are posting much warmer temperatures in their parts of the world, but 80s in the Pacific Northwest can be a lot. I just keep saying that I’m thankful for AC and move on with my life. I’ve had to start watching my basil and tomatoes because they’ve been showing some heat stress, and the hydrangea is requiring a lot more water to keep from wilting. But it sure is nice, when compared to rainy and gray February, to have hot sunshine on my skin when I step outside…just need to be careful to not spend too much time in that sunshine!

As I Look Outside My Window:

I cut some daisies for a bouquet this week, but left them outside overnight so I didn’t bring bugs inside the house. And then I liked them on my porch table so much that I just left them there. I love to watch fat lil’ bumblebees in the lavender, and my Parrot Echinacea is getting ready to bloom soon! The poor grass is struggling, even after we increased the amount of water it’s getting each day.

Right Now I am:

Thankful to finally be done with homework, and enjoying a simple day of rest after too many activities last week! I’m also smelling the most delightful smell because Renaissance decided to bake an Almond Maraschino Chiffon Cake. She’s reducing the maraschino juice for the glaze right now and it smells amazing.

Thinking and Pondering:

  • I think I need to do less on Sundays. It’s become a catch-all day of the week, which isn’t a big deal, but I got really good at being productive and efficient with my time throughout grad school, and I’ve transferred that work ethic and prowess to regular daily living and I’m getting a lot done each day. To the point that I really do need a day of nothing to balance it all out or I’m going to implode.
  • Which means I probably need to un-commit to a few things…you know how you’ll finish something HUGE and then, because you suddenly have a lot more time to give to other things, you just say yes to everything? I’ve done that. Not so much to other people, but definitely to myself about projects and ideas. I need to have a sitdown with myself and make some decisions so I can calmly remind myself that we made a calculated decision to not do that thing because XYZ.
  • It is just so nice to be home and busy with house projects and decluttering. We’re just a little hive of activity and things are looking better each day. Love it.

Listening to:

The kids talking excitedly about the last round of GarticPhone that they played.

How am I feeling:

Pretty good. Things are going good right now and I’m thankful!

On my Reading Pile:

Nothing has really changed since last week. Haven’t read much.

On my TV this week:

Hopefully nothing, the weather is too nice to be sitting inside watching television!

On the Menu:

  • Saturday: Spaghetti, Garlic Garlic Beans, Summer Salad, French Bread
  • Sunday: Citrus Grilled Pork Roast
  • Monday: Hot Dogs, Broccoli Slaw, Potato Salad
  • Tuesday: Tacos, Beans, Fixin’s, Rice
  • Wednesday: Leftovers
  • Thursday: Sandwiches, Carrot & Celery Sticks, Green Salad, Chips
  • Friday: Chicken Satay, Thai Cucumbers, Rice

Looking Around the House:

The front room is full of Rachel’s things and piles of stuff that people are finding throughout the house to get rid of. I’m getting overwhelmed by it, but I know if I just keep plugging along with this work, it will eventually end and I’ll be so happy with the end result. I did do some cleaning in the craft room because my hands were tied in every direction forward unless it got cleaned. Hopefully I can start sewing again this week.

To-Do List This Week:

  • Hopefully finish gutting Rachel’s bedroom, reorganizing it, and putting it all back together. I’m not sure if this can be done in one measly week.
  • Keep planning Ren’s birthday party.
  • Driving practice sessions for both Ren and Rachel.
  • Buy birthday gifts for Renaissance

Devotional:

My word for this last week was “energy.” As I thought more and read more about it, it seemed that the message I needed to get out of it was that wherever my energy goes, that’s what grows. I kind of hijacked the idea of “energy” with the idea of “focus.” Focus takes energy. Putting my energy into gratitude and optimism? I feel more grateful and optimistic. Focusing my energy on worrying and bad memories? I get tenser and more stuck in thinking about those kinds of things. Once I figured that out I would catch myself when I’d start ruminating and switch my thinking to happier topics. It’s weird that it works so well to change your train of thought to a different set of tracks.

I’m thankful that I realized this little trick this week because decluttering forces you to deal with all sorts of stuff that also can trigger some very unwelcome thoughts and memories. It’s been a long week of feeling the burden of past negative interactions, and I could have easily hunkered down in fixation on them, but I kept saying, “Nope!” and moving on to something else that plays an actual role in my life right now, rather than getting into a slurry over things that no longer matter.

This upcoming week’s word is: POWER. What does power mean to you? How can you harness power for good?

Linking up to Sandra’s Happy Homemaker Monday!

Happy Homemaker Monday: July 10-16, 2023

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(Note: I wrote this yesterday [Sunday] because my weekdays are super busy and I’ve no time for blogging on Monday mornings.)

I came across the Happy Homemaker Monday link-up last autumn and earmarked it as something I wanted to do once I got done with grad school because I’m still a homemaker at heart who loves to make my home comfy and beautiful. I love reading through Sandra’s thoughts and her enthusiasm for taking care of her home and family, and it’s hard to find blogs like that these days. So here’s my first, of hopefully many, Happy Homemaker Monday posts:

The Weather:

We have some lovely summers here in the Pacific Northwest, and we are in the middle of some great weather right now. It was pretty warm last week, so this little bit of cooling is welcome. It will make our afternoon activities much more bearable.

As I Look Outside My Window:

  • We are “allowing” the garden “to lie fallow” this year because I was too busy with school to get out into it during the spring, but it’s making me a little squirrelly to see it be so fraggly. The kids have their weeding chores and the weeds are slowing being eradicated, so that’s good. I just have to keep telling myself that this is a not gardening year. ((shudder))
  • I did go buy some basil plants and a tomato plant because it’s just not summer if there’s not basil and tomatoes in my garden. I now visit them every evening after Michael and I get back from our after dinner walk. Makes me happy.
  • I missed the window for harvesting my lavender. I was going to try my hand at making lavender wands this year, but alas. Oh well, it’s still very pretty to look at.
  • I love our super shaded front porch so much. The kids and I have been spending a lot of time out there eating ice cream, drinking drinks, working on hand projects…it’s a great little spot that doesn’t get sunbaked and is hidden from the view of people walking by on the street.

Right Now I Am:

Waiting for my Lime Curd Bars with Coconut Crust to cool on the counter so I can bring them to church for our “Linger Longer” after meetings are done. Michael is giving one of the talks in sacrament meeting today, too, so I’m thinking about ways to make it better.

Thinking & Pondering:

  • Renaissance’s birthday party
  • How to explain/teach goal-setting to teenagers
  • I’d like to throw a Mother/Daughter Halloween tea this autumn
  • How in the world will I organize Rachel’s bedroom after I gut it this week?
  • Do I just quilt the Patriotic baby quilt on my regular machine, or do I go forward with cleaning off my cutting table to make way for the Big Boy sewing machine with the super throat that I bought last summer? I think a cutting table clean-off would require gutting the craft room, and I can’t gut more than one room at a time or my house will burst into flames and weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth. The kids’ bedrooms are the priority right now, so I think I have to quilt on my regular machine, which I’m not very excited about.

Listening to:

My main man, Claude Debussy, as I try to keep the energy chill in the house on this beautiful summer morning.

How Am I Feeling:

Last week was a huge disruption to my routine, as most holidays are, and I still feel a little off-kilter. Sleep hasn’t been great for various reasons. I’m hoping this all evens out in the upcoming week. I’m excited about the improvements I’m making in the house. I wish it wasn’t such hard work, but it is definitely worth it.

On the Breakfast Plate:

I used to be much cooler, breakfast-wise. Now it’s just a protein bar, pills, and caffeinated water before yoga, followed by a protein shake after yoga. Renaissance makes me an egg sandwich on the mornings that we work out together.

On the Lunch Plate:

I still hate lunch. Dumb lunch, interrupting my work flow. However, I’ve been grilling up a few chicken breasts every other day so the kids can add chicken to whatever they’re eating and up their protein intake. I’ve been noticing that they are ingesting very carb-heavy meals and I’m trying to curb that tendency.

On the Dinner Plate:

(Sunday) Michael will make tacos tonight!

What I’m Wearing:

My favorite pink gingham shirtwaist dress, which I wear to death and will eventually need to reverse engineer to recreate a million more.

On My Reading Pile:

On My TV This Week:

Hopefully nothing; I like to keep my television watching to bad weather days. I did binge-watch some Clarkson’s Farm last week when I wasn’t feeling well.

On the Menu:

I meal plan on Saturday mornings, so my plan started a couple of days ago:

  • Saturday: Italian Sloppy Joes
  • Sunday: Tacos
  • Monday: Spaghetti, Green Beans, Caesar Salad, French Bread
  • Tuesday: North Carolina Pulled Pork (new recipe!), Corn on the cob, Broccoli Slaw
  • Wednesday: Steamed Buns, Stir Fry Veggies, Marinated Cucumbers, Rice
  • Thursday: Leftovers
  • Friday: Cedar Plank Salmon, Baby Potatoes, Caesar Salad, Rolls

Looking Around the House:

We’re in the midst of decluttering the kids’ bedrooms. I’m pretty much finished with Emily’s and Nathaniel’s room, but some of their stuff is randomly strewn about the house. Everything’s messy after a year of grad school, but this summer is the antidote to that messiness and we’ll crawl out from underneath the weight of the clutter by the time school starts back up.

To-Do List This Week, beyond the obvious laundry and like:

  • Start gutting and deep cleaning Rachel’s room. Oh, this is going to be a BIG job.
  • Move forward with plans for Renaissance’s birthday party
  • Go to the DOL and renew Renaissance’s driver’s permit
  • Driving practice sessions for both Renaissance and Rachel
  • Maybe plant some seeds in the garden for autumn crops?
  • Get graduation cards and thank you cards sent out

Devotional:

I’m experimenting with a new spiritual practice of choosing a word each week and pondering on what that word means to me, character-wise and in practical application. This week’s word is “energy.” I’ll report on what I came up with next week.

This last week’s word was “sunshine,” and I didn’t spend a lot of time with it because I was feeling crummy. But I do love that it’s a word that describes something tangible and also can be applied as a positive adjective.

What does it mean to me to embrace sunshine in my life?

  • Physically: Getting as much of it as I can during these summer months and being oh-so-grateful for it because I know I’ll miss it dearly come January, February, and March. Being careful with it because too much of a good thing can be very harmful indeed.
  • Emotionally: Making the choice to look on the bright side of things. The last few years have been an interesting experiment of watching people become what they fixate upon. I am more and more convinced that focusing on the negative just breeds more negativity in one’s life. You don’t have to scream about all the bad things in the world all the time in order to change them. Better to stay calm, be cheerful and cordial, strive to make things beautiful and lovely, AND work the proper channels to fix what’s wrong. Screaming doesn’t help things, but writing letters, voting, and contributing funds to important causes does. Better to do those things quietly and live your daily life gracefully so you can be a bringer of sunshine to yourself and those around you, rather than making people dread interacting with you and avoiding the causes you’re passionate about because you’ve soured them towards them with your ranting and seething. I accomplish much more positive change when I’m calm, collected, and cheerful, and our home is such a lovely sanctuary from the stress of the world when Mama is content. My husband and children deserve a safe place to land each evening.

Well, that’s everything. What a delightful exercise in noticing what’s going on around me and contemplating my actions for the upcoming week. I enjoyed writing this post! I wish you all a beautiful and productive week ahead!

#craftygoals Check-In: July 2023 #1

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Hello Lovelies! How were your Fourth of July celebrations, my American friends? And how were your Canada Day celebrations, my Canadian friends? Those are the only ones that come to mind at the moment, so I apologize if I missed anyone’s big international things. I can only keep track of so much!

We did basically nothing beyond grilling some sausages and hot dogs and then driving around to look at fireworks and get bit by mosquitoes. It threw off my sleep schedule mighty bad and I’m reminded of why I choose not to be a night owl. CARA DOESN’T DO STAYING UP LATE.

Just thought I’d pop in and figure out where I am with the crafting so I can have my head wrapped around where I’m going with things in the next week. Here we go:

Patriotic Mini Chiffon Baby Quilt: The top is complete, I’ve got the backing and batting cut, and all that’s left is basting, quilting, and binding! I’ve hit a bit of a snag with quilting that I’m trying to figure out, but it’ll be fine. My friend actually had her baby on July 4th, which is just so ridiculously on-brand for their family’s patriotism, so I’m sewing like the wind to get this made up quickly and out the door. Nothing bad will happen if it takes longer, but you know how it starts to feel with baby quilts for babies that have already debuted. Apparently I haven’t taken any photos since I finished the blocks though, so no photos for you this week.

Scrappy Thursdays: I finished the blocks for the Brickhouse quilt! Now on to picking out fabrics for sashing and borders and then assembling all that. I won’t come back to this until the first week of August, but it feels great knowing that all the blocks are pieced!

Smitten EPP Quilt: I finished the last full block and laid it out in the living room to figure out placement and what colors I’ll make all the extra little bits. There’s still a lot of work to be done on this quilt, but I’m really enjoying the process.

New Rabbit Hole: As I was working on the Patriotic Baby Quilt this week, I got to thinking how I’d like to add some more handmade items to the total gift and thought about the idea of knitting up a little stuffed animal to include. I dived headfirst into that rabbit hole, decided I’d quickly knit up a free pattern that I found, and then the next morning looked at it all again and decided that this was not the time to make this happen and that a quilt is plenty enough gift.

HOWEVER, during my mad dive into stuffed animal knitting territory, I discovered the most cutest knit designer who keeps a blog and it is just so beautiful and inspiring and it makes me want to reclaim those glory days of blogging so very much: Little Cotton Rabbits. Oh my gosh, do I love reading her blog and, once things calm down and I can indeed include little stuffed animals with baby quilts, I am going to knit up every single one of those little patterns (Ravelry link) until my fingers bleed because they are beyond cute and I’m weirdly obsessed with how quintessentially British they are. My whole family is sick of hearing me talk about them, but I’m not going to stop talking about them anytime soon.

Alright, happy crafting to you all in the upcoming week! Find time for the things that make you happy!

#craftygoals: July 2023

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I feel like the Tinman squeaking out, “Oilcan, oilcan!” as I recommence with old bloggy habits. It’s the beginning of a new month, so let’s discuss some crafty goals, shall we?

My last #craftygoals post was way back in February 2022, and the goals from back then were:

  1. A clothing item: Nope
  2. Finish the Rainbow Coin Strip quilt: I got pretty far on this; it’s basted and ready to be quilted.
  3. Continue/maybe finish the Far Far Away quilt: I worked on this a lot during last year’s summer quarter of classes and it’s up to the point where the rows are pieced together, but just the rows, not the entire quilt top.
  4. Complete the Brick House blocks #5-8: I just checked the bin for this project and I have completed twelve blocks and have the strips finished for blocks #13-16. No recollection of when I did that, but I have physical evidence that it happened!
  5. Complete the Clementine Quilt Along blocks from Months 3 & 4: Looks like I finished Month #3.
  6. Start the Berry quilt: Nope. I’m eager to get this one started, as I’ve had this quilt idea in my mind since I first received my Farm Girl Vintage book forever ago.
  7. Start the HST Leaders & Enders quilt: Doesn’t look like I did. I honestly have no idea what I’m going to do with these HSTs, but I’ve got a million of them. Maybe just a totally scrappy thing? We’ll see.
  8. Finish Michael’s Building Blocks socks: Finished and blogged!
  9. Find a new hand-stitching project: I dug out my Smitten quilt, which I never mentioned on the blog before this, and have put a lot of work into it over the past year. I’m almost done with creating all the blocks and can start putting the top together soon.

So now that we’re all caught up on all of that, let’s set some goals for this next month:

Time-Sensitive Things that need Working on ASAP:

Patriotic Mini Chiffon Baby Quilt: A friend is having a bae-beeeee! I spent a little bit of time in the last week cutting fabric and beginning to piece this quilt. I had hoped to have the blocks completely done by today, but I’ve got all of next week to assemble the top and it should be fine.

Farm to Table Mini Chiffon Baby Quilt: Another friend is having a bae-beeeee! She’s not due until August, though, so I have a little more time to get this one done.

Things to Work on after the ASAP Projects:

Rainbow Coin Strip Quilt: I’m still warming up to full-steam-ahead sewing speeds, so I’ll be extremely happy if I manage to get both of those done before the end of the month. IF I find myself with extra time on my hands, I’ll unearth the Rainbow Coin Strip quilt and start quilting it.

Scrappy Thursdays: I’d like to resurrect Scrappy Thursdays and start making a dent in the scrap bins. Rotation will be:

1st Week: Brickhouse Blocks 13-16 (Finish)
2nd Week: Clementine #4
3rd Week: Finally start the Farm Girl Vintage Berries blocks
4th: Leaders & Enders HSTs

Hand Stitching:

As far as hand stitching projects, I’m working on the Smitten EPP quilt during the kids’ music lessons and I’m quite near the end. It’s feasible that I might get all the individual blocks completed by the end of the month. Then I have to start connecting them. Whoo boy, that’s going to take a lot of time. I’ll work on that in the car until it gets too big to be a car project, and then it will have to become a craft room project.

Keep in mind that I’m also doing a massive declutter & deep clean of the kids’ bedrooms during this time, so my time is very limited! Wish me luck!

An Organized House: Thoughts on the House & Holiday Plan

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Years upon years ago, I discovered the Houseworks Holiday Plan, which would later be renamed the House & Holiday Plan. It was originally published on the OrganizedChristmas website, which has since shut down. Since I’d printed out all of the schedules, checklists, and printables in 2011, I was still okay to continue with my tradition of following the plan each autumn, which I’ve attempted to do every year.

I’ve never completed the entire plan. I think I’ve been attempting to complete it since 2005 or 2006, and I’ve never made it all the way through because there was no way to complete those room-specific decluttering and cleaning tasks in the one week allotments when you’ve got four children and you’re dealing with back-to-school activities. I was thinking on this predicament during one of my planning periods during the last week of teaching school this year and realized I could just start the plan earlier and schedule extra time for decluttering the kids’ bedrooms. Don’t you just hate it when you have such a simple idea that really should have occurred to you, like, a DECADE ago?!?! Ugh.

The house is destroyed, which was the expectation after spending a year studying and student teaching, so at least things aren’t worse than originally planned. Regardless, there’s a lot of work to do to get things back in shape around here. I hit the “go” button on the House & Holiday Plan this last week and will use the extra time to get things reorganized over the summer. I’ve allocated two weeks to each kid bedroom, my bedroom, and the craft room for a total of ten weeks of decluttering, deep cleaning, organizing and, hopefully, a little redecorating and prettying up.

I started with Nathaniel’s and Emily’s shared bedroom this week because: 1) It’s got the most stuff in it, and 2) We never did a thorough clean out/declutter when Emily went off to college in the fall because she decided at the last minute to live on-campus and I actually packed up her stuff while she was at class before dropping it off that evening. Yeah, I packed up my kid in less than twenty-four hours. (Last summer was super stressful!!) I was too busy to deal with the leftovers and it’s been waiting for me for almost an entire year to get back to it. Well baby, I’M BACK FOR IT.

I like to completely gut a room when I’m doing a deep clean–take out every last thing, physically touch everything à la Marie Kondo and decide if it’s going to be kept, donated, or thrown away. This means that my living room is currently holding every physical possession of Nathaniel’s and Emily’s. So, another mess in order to deal with the original mess. *mirthless chuckle*

But, man, does it feel good to empty out an engorged room, rearrange the furniture, deep clean that sucker, and then judiciously bring things back in. *satisfied sigh*

So that’s what I’m up to right now, and I plan to come back next Friday/weekend and show you some pictures of something organized. I do much better when I have deadlines, so there it is–let’s get a bedroom put back together and prettified.

And then I got a Master’s Degree

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Hello Lovelies!

Yes, it’s been particularly quiet here on the blog for a long while.

Yes, there was a good reason:

There were a few days when I thought I would be able to handle completing the requirements of earning a Master’s Degree in Teaching on an accelerated schedule and still keep the blog running at the same time, but then I read through the syllabi of my first quarter’s classes and knew that something would have to give, and it would most definitely be the blog.

It was a good trade: I’m now one Master’s Degree smarter! Ha ha ha.

I’m hoping to come back to a regular schedule of blogging sometime this summer, but it might take until autumn if it turns out there’s a lot more messes in my house to clean up than originally thought. There were many trade-offs to make time for studying and student teaching, and we’re now a full year from when I had to give up on a steady housecleaning routine…there’s definitely some messes that need attending to that have been piling up since then. Once I get them all taken care of, I can unearth the craft room from its current designation as the landing spot for everything that didn’t have a place and get back to some good ol’ crafting!

But yeah, MASTER’S DEGREE, baby! Woo hoo! But not woo hoo for the outdoor commencement ceremony in SEATTLE that rained all over my parade. Graduation pictures will definitely NOT be this year’s Christmas card photo! *sigh* I try so hard, y’all, I really do!

Evidence of Life

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The weather has done its thing where it finally shifts from dragged-out summer to definitely autumn, and that always puts me into a reflective mood. Another year is beginning its spiral towards completion, while at the same time being in full-on chaotic upswing due to the steady hum of a new school year and the holiday season sneaking up behind us. It’s a weird little time in the calendar year: A constant pull between calming down and ramping up.

I’ve not posted much this year. I made a decision, many years ago, to not post while feeling overly emotional or snarky, and every time I’ve broken that rule, I’ve regretted it. So I heeded the wisdom of a lesson learned the hard way, multiple times, and kept myself to myself and focused on my children. It seems to be the most winning of strategies when I’m working through difficult phases of life. We had a quiet spring, a quiet summer, and were ready and refreshed to tackle what autumn had in store for us, and wow, autumn has not held back on amazing moments. I’m so glad we were in prime form to go with its energetic current of events.

But then the rain (mercifully) started up this morning, and I decided to take a pause on this Friday and still myself after so much rushing. The kids are doing so good right no; it’s so great to watch them blossom. That blossoming comes with a lot of driving them around and last-minute schedule changes, but remember how two years ago there was nothing for them to go to? This frenzy is evidence of life being lived. I’m so grateful that we’re in this moment of time, moving on from what was a very difficult couple of years.

I don’t write a lot here because I’m not creating a whole lot of stuff these days. I don’t know what to write about to you all anymore. I struggled with this same conundrum years ago when I shifted out of homeschooling–what do you write about on a homeschooling blog when you’re not homeschooling anymore? I tried to morph into a homemaking blog, but readers abandoned me in droves, so I packed it up and called it good. Thankfully, I was getting going with the crafty stuff, and that created this blog. But here we are again, with no crafting happening, and me wondering about what to write about now?

I am busy with my children. I am busy with cooking, laundry, and cleaning. There are blogs enough out there that talk about those topics, and they’re not really topics I feel like I have much to write about–we all need to eat, we all need to not be naked, and we need to keep ourselves and our homes clean enough to stay healthy. It’s not a calling in life–it’s just life, regardless of your relationship and parental status. Everyone eats, everyone wears clothes, everyone cleans. I don’t know how to craft essays about those topics that will make us feel better about them.

But maybe I’ll try. It’s nice to have a written record to read in future years. (I go back and read through my homeschooling blog once or twice a year because I dearly love reminding myself of the cute things the Brookelets were doing during their elementary years!)

And maybe I’ll find time to craft again in the future, but it’s not looking like my time will open up anytime soon. I knit a little when I watch TV, and I have a knitting bag in the van for when I’m waiting to pick up kids, but it’s slow progress and nothing like when I was actively trying to create content for this blog and Instagram. (It’s so nice to take a break!) Most of my favorite craft bloggers admit they now have teams helping them produce content, and I refuse to try to keep up with it all. We have so many quilts in our house, and the kids no longer want new winter hats each year–there’s just no demand in our home for most of what I craft anymore, and that’s ok…it was fun while it was desired. What is needed from me right now are the basics and the logistics and they are all-time-consuming. We are making hay while the sun shines on these awesome teenage years!

It’s a great time of parenthood, and I do not resent how much of my time it is taking to help my kids flourish. This is what we’ve been working towards all these years and it is Go Time now. All the preparation, all the lessons, all the learning…it’s all coming into play as they start taking their very own footsteps out into the world and start showing up for themselves at the things they’re choosing to continue…and I am the woman behind the curtain, making sure they show up on time in a clean, healthy, and calm state. It’s just so much fun to watch it all come together in these precious moments.

So that’s what’s going on here, and I’ll share what I’m comfortable sharing when I have the time, but it’s hardcore busy around these parts right now, and I have very little knitting to show for it.

I hope you are all having a fantastic autumn season (spring for you southern hemisphere folks!) and I wish you a beautiful season of joy and contentment to help refill our precariously-drained wells after so many years of isolation and suffering. Enjoy living life again!

FINISHED: Building Block Socks

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They’re so finished that he’s even worn them to church already.

Details:

Pattern: #216 Beginner’s Lightweight Socks, by Diane Soucy of Knitting Pure & Simple (my favorite sock pattern!)

Yarn: Knit Picks Felici Fingering Weight in “Building Blocks” colorway (colorway discontinued), 2 skeins with very little leftover.

Needles: US 0 (2.0 mm)

Modifications: I used the wrong needle size somehow. It should have been a US 2 (2.75 mm).

These were supposed to be done in time for Christmas, so I had to enact the “public shaming” method of pressure to get myself to work through to the end despite missing my original deadline. I will say that this method definitely works for me.

I did use the wrong needle size somehow. The last pair of socks that I made for him, I didn’t write down what size needles I used, and just looked at the picture of them to guess what needles they were and then hunted down a similar-looking set and got knitting. I think I may have a set of gold-colored US 2s and a set of gold-colored US 0s, and…there you go, mistake made. As a result, these are a dense fabric and a little on the snug side, but he says they work well in his church shoes, which are a snug fit, as most church shoes are.

He likes that they’re bold and peppy. I wasn’t expecting that. He’s more of a “dark, monochrome colors” for his socks kind of guy. I was trying to use up stash and I’d had this yarn since 2013.

On Second Thought: A Case of the Februaries Might Not Need New Projects

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I wrote a few days ago about how I’ve been hit by the February ennui that tackles me every year, and how I’d decided to just give in to every new project that flitted across my radar in an attempt to give myself some happy chemical boosts and weather out the rest of this gray month. I published my post, went off to continue working on the new Linen Stitch scarf, and as I was knitting away the day, my mind wandered and I remembered something I read about in the The Twelve Week Year called the “Emotional Cycle of Change,” which comes with a handy little visual in the book:

I recalled the first time I worked The Twelve Week Year system, way back in the summer of 2020, and how much impact that little image had on me because I absolutely identified with it. When I was putting in the work on that cycle’s goals, I hit that nasty wall of despair right around Week Five and it stuck with me for a good two or three weeks where all I wanted to do was give up, give up, give up. But, thankfully, I was aware of it, I had people to talk to about it who encouraged me to keep going, and yep, I kept at it and eventually pulled up and out of that funk because I didn’t give up and I didn’t shift my focus onto something else. I got to experience the high of sticking with that project until the end, even though I really wanted to just die for a few weeks whenever I thought about another stupid day of doing this.

And I think that’s what’s going on right now. I started the new year with the idea of doing good on crafty goals, and I’ve been going forward with all the energy and zeal of an optimistic goal-getter, and it’s now hitting really hard that progress isn’t an overnight thing and I am smack dab in the Boring Middle of it all. The answer isn’t to quit or switch focus, because when I get to the end of this twelve week cycle (in the last week of March), I don’t want to look back and regret that I stopped working on these goals. Honestly, it’s a bit of a weird goal cycle because I don’t have anything huge going on because I just couldn’t come up with anything except “take a break from striving all the time,” because I’ve been striving hard for eighteen months straight and just felt like I needed a break. So I’m only doing some low-key stuff to help prep me to do bigger things come April, but it is important to me to tie up a lot of these loose crafty ends, if only to “close the circuit” on these open/unfinished projects.

So the answer right now is that I’m having a normal reaction to change. I’ve been really good at showing up to work on these crafty goals; it’s become my routine and it’s no longer a new, exciting thing, and I’m jonesing for the high of a new project…but that’s what gets me into this mess of having eighty-seven UFOs cluttering up my craft room and driving me crazy all the time. The answer is to just keep showing up and doing the work, even if I need to grit my teeth somedays, and remind myself of how good it’s going to feel to get that pile of quilt tops completed. In a few weeks’ time I’ll start seeing the results of that consistency and I’ll start getting excited about the dash to the finish line, and the high of finishing a big goal is way bigger than the high of starting a new project. Lasts longer, too.

Another thing I might to watch out for is the impulse to indulge in retail therapy–it might be one of the first signs that I’m approaching Stage 2 or Stage 3 of this cycle. That being said, there is a still an ungodly amount of yarn currently making its way to me in the mail because…well, I didn’t figure this out until after I’d already ordered it. Guess I’ll be making a lot of socks and fingerless mittens for the foreseeable future, even though I know I’m only capable of about seven pairs a year, given my “comfortable knitting” calculations I just figured out.

How many skeins of sock yarn did I order? Nine. *sigh*

I’ll do better the next time.

My kids are punks

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I’ve been working away on the Rainbow Coin Strip quilt, spurred on by the, frankly, heartwarming reception my kids have been giving it whenever they wander through the craft room. Everyone loves to look for fabrics they remember, and oh my goodness, have I been feeling like a Winner.

I finally got all the borders attached and laid out the quilt on a bed so it wouldn’t wrinkle while I prepared the backing. I mentioned to Emms that the quilt was pieced in its entirety and laid out on the bed if they wanted to see it in its full glory, and they headed off to the room. Moments later they shrieked and then started laughing, which piqued my curiosity and Nathaniel’s, so I went into the room after he ran in and saw this:

So I walked around the end of the bed to see what was so interesting, and saw it:

And those little punks squealed with glee, took pictures of it, and texted it to their friends for a laugh.

And you know how people say, “Will it matter in ten years?” I decided that yes, it would still matter in ten years and they would probably still be making fun of me, so I decided to fix it:

I don’t think it will matter much, jokes about snipers and presidential assassinations are going pretty strong in our house at the moment.

And it’s no longer the “Rainbow Coin Strip quilt” to my kids, it’s now called the “Kennedy Sniper quilt.” Which is not a name you want people to adopt for anything you make, ever.

Seriously, who OK’d the decision to put that on fabric?!?! Why?!?! What quilt would be elevated with that headline?!?!

I imagine it was one of the fat quarters included in a low volume or text only bundle, and when I was cutting fabric for the border I just grabbed white fabrics with black on them, no reading necessary, stacked them in a pile and did a batch cut. And then I sewed them together, right sides facing, so I missed it again. Ugh.

Oh well, the hexagons are cute, and it allowed me to use up a little bit of canvas that’s been sitting in the stash since I made the original Storybook Hexagons quilt with it. It was nice to revisit memories of that quilt, which is still to this day the most popular quilt on this blog.

And now that adorable fabric is covering up a presidential assassination headline. Lovely.